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We Said Yes!

We Said Yes!

Someone’s down on one knee, a question is popped and – just like that – you’re engaged!

Cue whirlwind.

In the days that follow the big moment, you’ll want to stand on a mountain top and shout your happy news – or at least get a few quick ring posts up on social pronto. 

And you’re not alone: An estimated 6 million couples get engaged on Valentine’s Day alone!

So what’s next?

    • Pick a date and place. Pop a cork and break out the calendar. Given the uncertainties of the past few years, many couples have had to postpone weddings and receptions, so securing your dream locale may be a little more challenging and require some flexibility.
    • Create Your Save-the-Date. You don’t need to know if Aunt Sadie will sit at the head table or who wants the aubergine timbales just yet. Amp up the anticipation by creating a save the date card that gives a sense of the destination and the vibe of the day. Include a happy photo, if you have one, especially if not everyone has met your intended.
    • Send, send, send. You’ll want to let your future guests know about the date and venue as soon as you do. Save the dates should go out a good eight to 14 months before your big day, especially if you’re planning a destination wedding. Don’t fret: It doesn’t have to ‘match’ your wedding stationery. Opt for fun, not fonts.
    • Mind your manners. Organized eager beavers will want to send a gift as soon as they receive your save the date. Be prepared with some thank you notes embossed with your names for shower and early wedding presents. 
  • Speaking of gifts: Consider having your registry created when you announce your big day. Already have a blender, dishware and a stack of fluffy towels? Highlight statement glassware or one-of-a-kind artisanal pieces at Bespoke Designs’ The Registry, a linkable list for all your special occasions.


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